Today is Sherry Levitan day for my wife and I.
That means that we are going to see the lawyer to consult with her on all things pertaining to our hopeful family to be.
Because we are going to use a known donor we have to seek a lawyer that will protect our rights and stear us toward being safest and smartest.
*insert lesbian bitterness here*—>straight people dont have to do this…its kinda weird. before we even try to conceive we have to cover all possiblilties. PAY PAY PAY $375.00/hour
i know this is all worth it
mostly for piece of mind.
My wife says she doest like when I call myself “the other mother”
I actually thought it was good. considering I wont be carrying.
but she is not experiencing the same things as I. She spent all sunday looking up her family tree. I love her so much. and I cant wait to see her as a mother. She’s so patient and smart. I think this will be an incredible way of us growing as a family.
Her and I are rock solid but we are also not stupid. We know this will be hard.
I on the other hand think harder and longer about who I want to be for our child.
Who my parents were for me and are now. what i loved as a child.
I know that whatever comes out of my wifes womb will be as much my destiny as hers.
I know my Mother will be so excited thinking of its little toes and holding it so gently.
Ash asked my big sister how she’d feel about a baby if there is not a blood relation to it.
She shrugged and said exactly the same. This is when we felt it neccessary to let my big sister know that she would be the “gawd mother” with no religous relations that means that if Ash and I die she will be the legal gaurdian. She was afraid…shes like”oh thats a big responsiblily” I told my little sister not to have hurt feelings as she’s only 16 and my big sister is the closest thing to me on this earth. my Little sister would probably flee the country if she was placed with that “burden” although little sis is very excited to buy our child “wicked clothes”…
I most go and get ready but I will report back about our
Sherry Levitan Day!
ok
xo
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